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Read any route on your own

Ten short, research-grounded conversations. Open any one and read what it is and exactly how to do it, by yourself, with no partner and no account needed. When you’re ready, you can do it together live.

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The ten routes

Route 4 · After a fight

I-Statements and Soft Start-Up

15-minute complain-without-blame map

Best for: You need to raise a concern without blame.

Sourced: S5, S6

Route 6 · After a fight

Time-Out Strategy

15-minute rehearsal map for flooding and self-soothing

Best for: Flooding or shutdown appears during conflict; rehearse before conflict.

Sourced: S7, S8

Route 9 · After a fight

Emotion Validation

15-minute feelings-before-facts map

Best for: The conflict is stuck on feelings not being acknowledged.

Sourced: S11

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Start a private room and share the code with your partner. Two phones, fifteen minutes, side by side.

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